Pain and Happines

Pain: the other side of Love

            Speaking of love, it has two connotations, pain and happiness. We lived in this world because of love. We enjoy our soul to the best we can. Aside from being happy, sometimes or most of the time, our self will suffer because we enjoy love. It’s sounds peculiar, but it’s true. Love makes us prolonged our agony and pain. From the simplest things we want to the most complex, the need of love and understanding. Why it is complex? At the time we open up our mind and heart to the person we love seems like you see an angel coming down to meet a special person like you, but we have to consider two things, the positive and negative outcomes most especially when you get in love with your caring friend. We have to evaluate two important viewpoints, the person you love and the most difficult, to accept the rejection.

    My reason why I am writing this short essay is to come up with an idea that love will make us down contrary to the most believed thought that love is a food to soul and the sunshine of our life. This is my own experience; I’m not saying that I hate love.

           

   It started very simple, no more, no less. Like what they said friend will commence love. I have already figured it out that someday my heart will fall to this person (that is person X). I was mistaken and I was trapped in a place where you can’t find any way out, that place is the unfathomable point of love.

           

    I developed a soft spot wherein every time it started to grow and time is ticking so fast that it eventually burst at a speed of light. It’s been a talked to the workplace and I know that if everything went wrong I am responsible of my action towards that person. I can’t speak out my true feelings because I am afraid of losing a special person in my life. It’s more than enough to see the smile of that person and that last only for a while. The time is fast approaching, I can’t handle myself but I am afraid to do so. I can’t talk to directly instead I am muted when X is near.

     The day has come and everything is in trouble as expected. Yes, I am wrong and I am in charged of my decision. I can’t stand with my love and I let time decide what will happen next. Fate is not in favor to let me to be with that person. I have suffered so much that I let myself isolated. I have many sleepless nights because I have incurred a deficit love to myself which should not be. To stand with one’s feeling is so hard to achieved added to it, the rejection. Sana di na lang kita nakilala .

    Thanks to my friend RJ, he gives advise to me and I need to consider the fact that we’ rent mean to be and I need to push forward for my own good. I need to understand myself and respect the decision of person X. Until now, I have suffered for it and I hope I can move on and will never fall in love again.

    Jesus is so good to me that He heals the wounds inside my heart and He gives me another reason to live and to enjoy life with my family and friends.

Friendship and Love

The most fantastic of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of Divine accident.

Personally, love for me, is an air which help me breathe every time.
I pretend that I don’t know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you. Loves is miraculous, and when you find it, don’t ever let it go.

According to a blog, love would be when you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're thinking about being together because you need that person; and without them, your life feels empty and incomplete. 

It's when you trust the other with your life; and when you would do anything for each other. When you love someone, you want nothing more than for them to be really happy no matter what it takes because their happiness means everything to you and their needs come before your own. It's when they are the last thing that you think about before you go to sleep and when they are the first thing you think of when you wake up.

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you, and trusting them not to. When they are with you, your heart is filled with joy. When they touch you, you get butterflies in your stomach. It's when you can't get that goofy smile off your face; and you feel like you've been touched by an angel. You feel pity for everybody else because you are thinking to yourself that they can't possibly be feeling what you're feeling.

I believed in Peter 4:8-9 “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling”.

If you love someone it would mean giving up something. As I wrote my poem, this matter sparkles in my mine. This would mean losing your friendship. The relationship you have venture in many years and you build it sweat.

“A single candle can illuminate an entire room. A true friend lights up an entire lifetime. Thanks for the bright light of your friendship”

Friends are priceless and therefore are their reminiscences. Therefore certify merely that you just simply produce every event a singular one and realize pleasure from your friendship continuously time. 

Gifts for friend is also one thing however; it's incomplete whereas not your cordial emotion and significance with it, whether or not or not you will purchase gift on-line or by mail or provides it yourself, invariably bear in mind the spirit of friendship for endless relationship to cherish throughout your life.

Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends can cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends can challenge us when we allow ourselves to get beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends can motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. They are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly; to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.

Friends give me strength and inspiration to push through as my family do. Everyday they boost my self to battle the challenges and trials of my life.

Then and again, my first time to feel love to someone but it is special and extraordinary. I can’t tell it to that person because it’s an unusual love which may caused in my part and to the people around me.

At this time, I feel confused and very sad my situation and I need your help. I want your advice in order for me to handle this crisis of mine. Just leave a message to this post.